And I realized that when people say “It’s a joke, don’t take it so seriously,” they’re really telling you that they see nothing wrong with what they said and they’re not going to apologize for it.
They aren’t saying “I’m a witty person with a cynical view of the world,” they’re saying, “It’s your fault I made you uncomfortable because you let yourself be angered by something offensive I said. I take no responsibility for this.”"
Anonymous (via bl-ossomed)
Just be fucking honest about how you feel about people while you’re alive."
some thoughts are so private that you only share them with a therapist or 17,000 people on the internet